They say when you turn 18 this is the time na pwede na magka boyfriend . That's when a family member or even a friend of yours asks you.

"May nanliligaw na ba sayo? "

Then you tell them no one is courting yet they sometimes don't even believe you.

Even if a lot of teens nowadays go into a relationship especially during the time you're in college I chose not to and plan to be in a relationship until after college na.
When I tell my friends this they ask me "why? sayang naman. paano kung may gusto talaga sayo? "
and I always reply to them " edi I will turn them down. " that's when they start asking me "so why nga bakit ayaw mo eh normal naman sa college naman magkabf or gf ah "

So bakit nga?

1. Priorities
In no doubt ,I'm happy for my friends who are in a relationship but for me ,I really want prioritize God first then family friends and then studies. They should be what you are focusing on. Now I'm not saying that it's bad to be in a relationship but there are times kase people can be so blinded with love that they'll forget their studies and all that .

2. Time
Hopefully my first and last boyfriend un my own preference because I believe there's so much valuable things to make better use I want the person I'm gonna be in a relationship is a potential husband I've seen people in tv they have been in a relationship for at least 5 years already and they still don't want to get married yet then sometimes even break up. See? mas gusto ko pa if your single for a few years and prepare for Mr. Right rather than try to be in a relationship then break up after a few months.

3. Prepared
When you commit yourself to someone you should know what your getting into its not "just a relationship " but you submit also to the person you are in a relationship. Dapat alam mo what your your getting yourself into  don't just be in it to be "cool" because everybody's doing it. People nowadays especially teenagers they enter into a relationship because they want to try what is like and you'll even end up heartbroken when the relationship doesn't work out. Or even worst if they do what's not suppose to do the girl even ends up getting pregnant. Wag na tayo umabot now pa lang know these things . So that it won't happen to you. :)

I broke my silence because people asked me about the reasons why I don't want to be in a relationship yet. it's so hard to explain so I just made a blog about it :)